This Girl Gives me real Relationship Goals
Relationships these days are hard to explain. Some people are blessed with the best partners. People are also struggling by maintaining the right trust, love and all the other things that matter. they face problems, arguments, stress and unwanted hate. There are also some people who don’t find the right ones.
Sometimes we see the perfect couple in every way possible. They look happy and prosperous. I feel they are rare nowadays.
I was just scrolling my feed as usual. My feed was filled with daily memes, suggestions, pictures. Then I stopped by a post which melts my heart literally.
Here is Suha. She explained her relationship so beautifully I really need to show you guys.
Suha explained the difficulties she faced in her Early life
Firstly, Suha explained the difficulties she faced because of her mother’s health.that’s the age gap that she missed from this relationship or generation gap she accepted so nicely and by heart.
She says, “My mom was 35 when I was born. Not only did she grow old when I grew up, but she was also sick, so the roles were exchanged. I was the one pampering her, I was the one taking care of her, I was the one getting tired of my duties. So that’s one thing I was kind of deprived of.
She thinks She is rewarded Now. Why?
Now when Suha is Married, and its been a couple of years, God rewarded her the best of all the hard work she did for her mother. She is Blessed by a caring Husband.
“In these past few months, I have gathered so much honor for this man in my heart and I wonder what I ever did to be called his wife. He keeps trying with his lame jokes until I crack a smile, no matter how tired he is, no matter what a pathetic day he had had. My husband keeps me motivated to take a shower, have my lunch, drink more water, go out, have a look at the day. He is the one behind all my positivity. If I keep praying Nafl all my life, I will never be able to thank Allah enough for a man like him.
This is the time when Suha is expecting a baby, this is indeed the best time of any girl’s life. Zaid is proving him yet again the best.
The way Zaid has cared for me, especially during my pregnancy. This man has literally taken care of my every move. If I had to straighten my legs he would help me do that. If I had to wear my shoes, he would help me do that.
Today, when I woke up after a very tough night, I saw him all dressed up for work standing in front of the mirror. He came to me to say Allah Hafiz to which I said “Its Paining hard Zaid”. He didn’t even take a second in saying “Let me do your message”. And he massaged my legs, my back, my arms telling me throughout “Allah will reward you the best “. He kind of forgets Allah will bless him too! A person who is just about to leave for his office, who has a high regard in his workplace, who can give me any excuse at that time, chose to massage my legs in his professional attire. That, my fellow male friends, is how you gain a place in a woman’s heart. A man can only be a king if he treats his wife like a queen. That, my fellow male friends, is a much forgotten Sunnah. This Sunnah will secure your position, instead of reminding your wife how you are allowed to have four.
Suha Is Grateful to him. Because:
Not only That, Suha is so Damn Grateful to this Beautiful Man, She says she can offer prayers daily for him.
In these past few months, I have gathered so much honor for this man in my heart and I wonder what I ever did to be called his wife. He keeps trying with his lame jokes until I crack a smile, no matter how tired he is, no matter what a pathetic day he had had. Zaid keeps me motivated to take a shower, have my lunch, drink more water, go out, have a look at the day. My Man is the one behind all my positivity. If I keep praying Nafl all my life, I will never be able to thank Allah enough for a man like him.
God always creates a balance in every person’s life. The maternal love which I was so desperate to have in my growing up days came in the form of my husband and I keep telling him, “Zaid you behave like my mom sometimes”
People who believe in Life, nature, and God are always got their rewards from the best sources and on timings. Suha Makes me belives in things which I maybe was losing.
Not only Suha, but I am also grateful to Zaid who makes this world a better place for her women.
A men who treats her women like a princess, is a proof that he has been born and raised by a Queen.
May you Guys have the best of parenthood, and amazing life ahead.